Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Monday, March 03, 2008
Interview with Mr. Marcus
Married man and father of two, the 37-year-old California native lives both an ordinary home existence while spending his days on the set of adult films and expanding his business, Daddy Inc.
As the face (or hat) of black booty video, Mr. Marcus’ career perks akin to the wet dream of an inmate who ain’t had any since Montell Jordan was the shit. He gallivants with a list of hip hop and adult industry A-listers (once including 2Pac), boasts adoring fans and has sex like a college kid with a timer and dynamo tied to his package. Oh, and lets not forget his titanic scene with the "dome queen" herself: Mr. Marcus is Superhead approved. Checkmate.
At the same time, Mr. Marcus is a man who doesn’t take his success for granted. Serving porn mongers for more than 15 years now, Mr. Marcus has experienced everything from producers getting lack on his paycheck (“motherfuckers are trying to make a nigga starve”) to discrimination against black men and run-ins with STDs (Chlamydia and gonorrhea to be exact). Just like with any other industry, you have you have to be consistent, forward thinking and hard working, we mean hard working, to stay on top.
HipHopDX: How did you break into the adult film industry?
Mr. Marcus: You know, I really wanted to be in porno industry since I was 14 years-old. At 14 years-old, you look and you see it for the first time and I know for a fact people are affected by sexual images. I was immediately affected and [my career] is the result of that. [I got my first break] in 1993. I answered an ad for people that wanted to be in the adult industry. Usually they were looking for women, but one day I kept checking this magazine and there was an ad specifically for black men for adult movies. So I responded to that ad.
DX: So since then has your career in the industry been a straight shot to success or was their ever a time when you barely had enough to pay the light bill?
MM: [This industry] can be a struggle. You can get fucked around; you can be around good people, you can be around bad people. I’ve been blessed because I’m in this adult industry and I’m a black man. There aren’t too many black men in the adult industry that are successful or that have the appeal, the stamina or the ability to sustain themselves. It hasn’t been a straight shot to success.
DX: So how did the hat come along?
MM: I cut all my hair off and I didn’t like it. I hated the bald look even through the bald look was in at that time. It never hurts a black man to have a bald head, thank God. But before I cut it off, my hair was growing. I had the little Jerri Curl fade. My girl hated the fact that I kept getting Jerri Curl juice on her pillow cases and on her bed sheets so she was like just shave that shit off. So I just shaved it off. But now, looking back, I wear hats the way people wear shoes. That’s that.
DX: Why don’t you start your own hat company?
MM: Damn right I’m going to come out with my own hat line. All of the good things in life are worth the wait for, so don’t trip. I’ve been around half long enough to know that I like my hats fitted, I liked them curved and I like them to grip my skull a little bit. Give me a little comfort up there, give me a little fitted.
DX: Tell me about your company, Daddy, Inc. What are you working on?
MM: Right now I have a bunch of goodies that need to be artistically touched. And we came out with a bunch of shirts, t-shirts and tank tops just to get the designs out there. Me and a designer, printer and the manufacturer came out with a design for Daddy t-shirts and Daddy Girl for the women. But I’ve looked into tennis shoes and jeans, hats and we’ve looked at ultimately trying to be more than what it is. In my mind I see Daddy Inc. being a little like Sean John, a little bit of Hustler, a little bit of Marc Ecko and some obscure extreme designer with mass appeal.
As a black person in the adult industry I already know that anything I do is going to be different, and I want my clothing line to represent that 100%. But the definition of what Daddy Inc. is ultimately going to be, I do not know. I want it to be original, I want to it to be real and unique. Daddy. The word Daddy, it’s very common, but it defines who the fuck I want to be in my life. Daddy.
DX: In urban culture you’ve become pretty mainstream, especially after that scene with Karrine Steffans surfaced. So even though you’re a porn star you’re also a member of the celebrity sex tape scandal bandwagon. How has that experience changed your life?
MM: In terms of popularity, I just want to be who I am and I’ve been able to do that so I feel like I have been blessed. Quietly and observantly, I’ve just watched how this whole thing blew up. It wasn’t something that I planned to do and I don’t think she planned to do. You know, the thing about Karrine is that she is her own person. She is a business woman, she is determined and she handles herself. She owes me. I didn’t have to do none of this shit. I’ve been quiet about it. I told people how I met her and I’ve been honest about it. I’ve told people what it’s like to work with her and I’ve been honest about it. I haven’t exploited [her]. I can’t even fuck, really. Shit, she got her own name, to be honest.
She exploited it like a motherfucker. I think she was frustrated about the way men treated her and being a single black mother with a child. I think those things drove her to think, “I’m not going to be dependent on anyone.” So I think she used her assets [to get were she want to be financially]. She’s not an ugly woman. She can suck a dick, and she’s pretty.
DX: She owes you? How so?
MM: She doesn’t mention me in articles, ever. She goes out of her way not to mention me. She tells everybody ahead of time, “don’t mention it.” She’s so adamant about not giving me any energy or not giving me any props or anything [positive] that might come my way. I get it. I don’t trip. It isn’t like she sucked my dick and I stopped making movies and it’s not like she stopped sucking dick after she sucked my dick. You think she stopped sucking dick? She fuckin’ wanted to. And the fact that if you want that now you gotta pony the fuck up makes me say, “Hey, don’t I deserve a little credit?” Hell yeah.
DX: So how did she end up in Mr. Marcus’ neighborhood?
MM: There’s this dude named Suave who a lot of people know because he is always up in the clubs and he’s an extrovert. I was booking for Mr. Marcus’ Neighborhood and he knew this girl and asked me if I’d be interested in her. I said, “Yeah, have her call me.”
DX: I saw you in an independent film at the Vibe Urbanworld Film Festival last summer. I was dyin’ watching other audience members reluctantly look around the theater at others who might also recognize you. It was like, “Aiight, I see you Mr. Marcus, but I’m not going to let my date know I see you.” Real funny. Anyway, what acting experience have you had outside of the adult film industry? Are you trying to be the next Denzel? That’d be the new frontier of crossover acts.
MM: I would love to have my name up in the [marquee] at the movie theater. I want someone to challenge me. I want someone to say I can’t do something and watch me do it and then I do it and excel. I can play the dramatic or romantic lead. I can play the funny side kick. If you give me some well-written words and a competent director with a vision I can act. I’m an actor who can follow direction. That’s what I do. I would love to do other shit. Being a black man, I know it ain’t easy. I know we gotta look out for each other. I know John Singleton. I know Aaron McGruder. I know these motherfuckers. I never ask them for a job, I mean, sometimes I joke around and be like, “Yo John, give me a job,” but I don’t actually expect them to.
Aaron McGruder, I never ask him for shit, but I wouldn’t mind; it wouldn’t hurt to have an opportunity in that situation because it would only help open me up to more opportunities; I could take came of my family better. I’m hungry. I’ve even thought about stand up. I mean, I do things that are funny as fuck. But I’m a porn star and people see me as a porn star. It’s funny because people love you and hate you. So they may or may not get in the way of your success.
DX: So we’re going to catch you at the Laugh Factory soon?
MM: Trust me, I’m close. ‘Cause motherfuckers are trying to make a nigga starve. I think comedy comes out of desperation. The things that we do [to survive] are funny.
DX: So what are you trying to say about your financial situation? Are you broke?
MM: I’m a yes-guy. That doesn’t always make you rich. I show up for people who are like, “I don’t have any money,” and I still perform at 100%.
DX: Hey, haven’t women like Superhead let you know that you can’t "fuck for free"?
MM: I know, I know. I know that God is good all the time. I just think that if I work hard and stay true I will get all those [material] things and more. So I’m not even trippin'. I have been given enough to provide. I got a company called Daddy Inc.; I feel like the father, the head of the household. But don’t trip. I came into this industry at the right time, before my time. So I think [the money] will come.
DX: So how much do you get paid per scene?
MM: I’m up to about $800-$1,000 per scene and then I own some movies and I own some scenes. I usually shoot about two to three times a week. That’s all I need, really. But that’s all business. You really have to negotiate. You have to work out points and percentages. I probably could have put out a bunch of urban films that don’t represent who the fuck I am, but I don’t think that way. I feel like I’ve been in this industry for a while but I don’t know what I am going to be doing next and I’m open to that. Trying to do something different. Trying to do something different sexually. I am challenged by it. I feel like why rush through it? I think ultimately, successfully I will be just as strong financially as any other cat that has been in this industry a long time.
DX: What’s your favorite kind of scene?
MM: I like me and a new girl. I like one-on-one. I like a new girl.
DX: What do you have to do to prepare for a scene? Is there ever a time when, you know, when even a few Viagra’s won’t do shit. Just kidding…
MM: I think about sex, and I just stay thinking about sex and I just perform.
DX: I interviewed you about two years back and you said that you had given Chlamydia and gonorrhea to your wife. She wasn’t too happy. So tell me you’ve made your woman proud and have entered ’08 a clean man?
MM: I’m going on like three years and I haven’t caught anything, which is pretty good being in the industry that I am. Most people who come into the industry come in effected by Chlamydia and gonorrhea. Why? Because they don’t get tested. Now they come into an industry where it is mandatory to get tested every month and guess what? They’re positive. These are people who are just fuckin' after the club and in the morning. Come on, there is a lot of dishonesty in sex.
DX: How is your marriage going?
MM: It’s fine. She’s different. She’s a woman who loves me and that the emotional aspect [of our relationship]. A lot of these girls in the industry, they don’t love me; they don’t give a fuck about me. They just want to get paid—they want to fuck and get paid. A lot of them know that I am married and I have kids and I am just doing my job, but then you have others who are definitely like, “oh, that was nice” [and insinuate that they want something more than sex]. But I have to think about my life. [My wife] has always been there. She has always been around and she knows more about me than the average mother fucker. She’s like anyone who has been in a relationship with someone for a really long amount of time. She can either love me or hate me. Right now [laughter] I think she loves me. But you know, I can piss her off.
DX: Like how?
MM: Like by watching porn.
DX: At home too? Damn!
MM: I mean, I’m a dude [laughter] what can I say. I mean, I can piss her off by leaving my socks on the damn floor; it doesn’t take much.
DX: What do you think you do best performance wise?
MM: I think I have patience. Although I think sometimes I am in a hurry, I like to slow it down. I will work to find that spot. I will work to make it sexy. I will work to make it appealing. I will work for the fans, the consumer or whoever is watching that scene, that video. I don’t say, “Why isn’t this bitch keeping my dick hard?” Some guys talk like that. I don’t talk like that; I stay in it to win it.
DX: Did you ever feel like there was a connection during sex with a woman that might qualify as cheating on you wife?
MM: There are a lot of women that I like, but what we do for business is not structured to sustain it. The new women in porn are young… some of them have families and are educated. But their sexual curiosity is so strong that they end up in the porno industry. And then you get to fuck ‘em, knowing that this woman would make the perfect wife; someone’s perfect girlfriend; someone’s perfect mother. But this sexual side of her is so strong that she has to express it and experience it. Women are just as bad as men.
DX: Oddly enough, I found your contact information on the site for the Free Speech Coalition, an organization that defends the adult film industry from censorship. It was funny to see you muddled with all those middle-aged white folk on the board. So what is your involvement in the organization? Don’t say you’re the token.
MM: They came at me before I was ready [to commit to the organization]. They fight for a lot of our tights. They are paid by a lot of companies to keep the government off the backs of porn producers, basically. The Free Speech Coalition was designed to protect the interests of the adult industry, either producer or performer and [the industry’s] ability to function as a business. I can be informed of change if I associate myself with that. And with that I learn more about what it takes to run a business in the adult film industry.
DX: So what exactly do you contribute to the workings of the organization?
MM: Well, I obviously contribute color. I think I also contribute youth and experience because I’m not just any performer; I’m a major performer.
DX: Do you have any plans to exit the industry or are you going to be pumpin’ until you have a heart attack?
MM: I want to be as present as possible in the industry. I came in the industry young because I was a fan, and I’m still a fan. Sex gives us something to laugh about and something to smile about. It’s gratification whenever you need it. I’m here because I can express myself through sex.
DX: Your government name, Jesse Spencer, could have worked as a porn alias, don’t you think? I mean, the closest person it makes me think of Elizabeth Berkley’s character on Saved by the Bell, Jessie Spano, but still, it’s a hot name. Where did Mr. Marcus come from?
MM: There is a Jesse Spencer the actor, so he was lucky. Jack Nicholson said it best. He said he likes to act because when he is acting he is not responsible for his actions. So you can do whatever the fuck you want and not be held accountable. I think that as being Mr. Marcus, at first it gave me a sort of freedom. I get to be whoever the fuck I want to be. The LA cops, the sheriffs pulled me over too many times and “Jesse Spencer” used to get my ass in a lot of trouble. So I came up with an alias and the alias was Marcus. When I came into the adult industry, I continued to use that alias.
DX: So what do you think is the relationship between Hip Hop and the adult film industry?
MM: I think Hip Hop builds off fuckin’. I heard of guys watching pornos while they are in the studio, recording. I’ve been in the studio with cats recording music while having pornos playing. I don’t think they have to think when they are watching movies; I don’t think they have to listen to the sounds. I mean, think about when you are dancing on the dance floor, [a woman] will determine if a guy can fuck or not based on [if he can dance]. I hear JD and Ludacris take their music to the strip clubs just to see if the girls are feeling it. They gotta stop saying sex sells, because sex and music sells, period. We call is "SMS: Sex, music, sells."
DX: So since you’re all up in the studio, do you ever think about dropping your own album? I’m sure it’d have some interesting interludes.
MM: I’ve thought about it. I don't know. I got flow. I got musically inclined balls.
DX: So freestyle for me
MM: *Freestyles*
DX: Don’t quit your day job.
DX: Do you have a little posse in the adult film world?
MM: Lexington Steele, Justin Slayer, Brian Pumper, John E. Depth, Fetish, Aurora Jolie, Pinky—she’s a freak; I like her. I like women who you would love to fuck in the mainstream world, but you can’t. But they're in porno because they love to fuck, they like being fucked and they like being objectified. A lot of times, to get a nut, you have to objectify some shit. You gotta want that car so bad that you will bust a nut to get that motherfucker. That’s who we are as a people.
DX: Who do you roll with?
MM: I hung with 2Pac for a little bit, I hung out with Aaron McGruder. I like to hang out with Dr. Dre; I’ve hung out with everyone for a quick second. Ray J…
DX: Do you think Ray J should have his own porn series?
MM: Yep, I sure do. I like Ray J. I think he represents for a lot of guys who are just like him. I’m an older cat, no doubt. Ray J is just a younger cat and he rolls with younger cats that look up to him. In a way, I’m just like him. How many R&B niggas you know who have a porno tape out? Keith Sweat? Omarion? Nah. He made a porno tape as a last ditch effort. It didn’t come out because he needed to make any money. He got money. The bitch [Kim Kardashian] actually [benefited more from the release of the tape]. She got a TV series, her sisters [are famous now]. That didn’t come from them being who they are, that came from that porno tape.
DX: What are the hurdles or the black man in the industry?
MM: There are a lot of white men in the position of money and power. You can’t be exhausted [as a black man] we have to get up and put in work.
From www.hiphopdx.com
As the face (or hat) of black booty video, Mr. Marcus’ career perks akin to the wet dream of an inmate who ain’t had any since Montell Jordan was the shit. He gallivants with a list of hip hop and adult industry A-listers (once including 2Pac), boasts adoring fans and has sex like a college kid with a timer and dynamo tied to his package. Oh, and lets not forget his titanic scene with the "dome queen" herself: Mr. Marcus is Superhead approved. Checkmate.
At the same time, Mr. Marcus is a man who doesn’t take his success for granted. Serving porn mongers for more than 15 years now, Mr. Marcus has experienced everything from producers getting lack on his paycheck (“motherfuckers are trying to make a nigga starve”) to discrimination against black men and run-ins with STDs (Chlamydia and gonorrhea to be exact). Just like with any other industry, you have you have to be consistent, forward thinking and hard working, we mean hard working, to stay on top.
HipHopDX: How did you break into the adult film industry?
Mr. Marcus: You know, I really wanted to be in porno industry since I was 14 years-old. At 14 years-old, you look and you see it for the first time and I know for a fact people are affected by sexual images. I was immediately affected and [my career] is the result of that. [I got my first break] in 1993. I answered an ad for people that wanted to be in the adult industry. Usually they were looking for women, but one day I kept checking this magazine and there was an ad specifically for black men for adult movies. So I responded to that ad.
DX: So since then has your career in the industry been a straight shot to success or was their ever a time when you barely had enough to pay the light bill?
MM: [This industry] can be a struggle. You can get fucked around; you can be around good people, you can be around bad people. I’ve been blessed because I’m in this adult industry and I’m a black man. There aren’t too many black men in the adult industry that are successful or that have the appeal, the stamina or the ability to sustain themselves. It hasn’t been a straight shot to success.
DX: So how did the hat come along?
MM: I cut all my hair off and I didn’t like it. I hated the bald look even through the bald look was in at that time. It never hurts a black man to have a bald head, thank God. But before I cut it off, my hair was growing. I had the little Jerri Curl fade. My girl hated the fact that I kept getting Jerri Curl juice on her pillow cases and on her bed sheets so she was like just shave that shit off. So I just shaved it off. But now, looking back, I wear hats the way people wear shoes. That’s that.
DX: Why don’t you start your own hat company?
MM: Damn right I’m going to come out with my own hat line. All of the good things in life are worth the wait for, so don’t trip. I’ve been around half long enough to know that I like my hats fitted, I liked them curved and I like them to grip my skull a little bit. Give me a little comfort up there, give me a little fitted.
DX: Tell me about your company, Daddy, Inc. What are you working on?
MM: Right now I have a bunch of goodies that need to be artistically touched. And we came out with a bunch of shirts, t-shirts and tank tops just to get the designs out there. Me and a designer, printer and the manufacturer came out with a design for Daddy t-shirts and Daddy Girl for the women. But I’ve looked into tennis shoes and jeans, hats and we’ve looked at ultimately trying to be more than what it is. In my mind I see Daddy Inc. being a little like Sean John, a little bit of Hustler, a little bit of Marc Ecko and some obscure extreme designer with mass appeal.
As a black person in the adult industry I already know that anything I do is going to be different, and I want my clothing line to represent that 100%. But the definition of what Daddy Inc. is ultimately going to be, I do not know. I want it to be original, I want to it to be real and unique. Daddy. The word Daddy, it’s very common, but it defines who the fuck I want to be in my life. Daddy.
DX: In urban culture you’ve become pretty mainstream, especially after that scene with Karrine Steffans surfaced. So even though you’re a porn star you’re also a member of the celebrity sex tape scandal bandwagon. How has that experience changed your life?
MM: In terms of popularity, I just want to be who I am and I’ve been able to do that so I feel like I have been blessed. Quietly and observantly, I’ve just watched how this whole thing blew up. It wasn’t something that I planned to do and I don’t think she planned to do. You know, the thing about Karrine is that she is her own person. She is a business woman, she is determined and she handles herself. She owes me. I didn’t have to do none of this shit. I’ve been quiet about it. I told people how I met her and I’ve been honest about it. I’ve told people what it’s like to work with her and I’ve been honest about it. I haven’t exploited [her]. I can’t even fuck, really. Shit, she got her own name, to be honest.
She exploited it like a motherfucker. I think she was frustrated about the way men treated her and being a single black mother with a child. I think those things drove her to think, “I’m not going to be dependent on anyone.” So I think she used her assets [to get were she want to be financially]. She’s not an ugly woman. She can suck a dick, and she’s pretty.
DX: She owes you? How so?
MM: She doesn’t mention me in articles, ever. She goes out of her way not to mention me. She tells everybody ahead of time, “don’t mention it.” She’s so adamant about not giving me any energy or not giving me any props or anything [positive] that might come my way. I get it. I don’t trip. It isn’t like she sucked my dick and I stopped making movies and it’s not like she stopped sucking dick after she sucked my dick. You think she stopped sucking dick? She fuckin’ wanted to. And the fact that if you want that now you gotta pony the fuck up makes me say, “Hey, don’t I deserve a little credit?” Hell yeah.
DX: So how did she end up in Mr. Marcus’ neighborhood?
MM: There’s this dude named Suave who a lot of people know because he is always up in the clubs and he’s an extrovert. I was booking for Mr. Marcus’ Neighborhood and he knew this girl and asked me if I’d be interested in her. I said, “Yeah, have her call me.”
DX: I saw you in an independent film at the Vibe Urbanworld Film Festival last summer. I was dyin’ watching other audience members reluctantly look around the theater at others who might also recognize you. It was like, “Aiight, I see you Mr. Marcus, but I’m not going to let my date know I see you.” Real funny. Anyway, what acting experience have you had outside of the adult film industry? Are you trying to be the next Denzel? That’d be the new frontier of crossover acts.
MM: I would love to have my name up in the [marquee] at the movie theater. I want someone to challenge me. I want someone to say I can’t do something and watch me do it and then I do it and excel. I can play the dramatic or romantic lead. I can play the funny side kick. If you give me some well-written words and a competent director with a vision I can act. I’m an actor who can follow direction. That’s what I do. I would love to do other shit. Being a black man, I know it ain’t easy. I know we gotta look out for each other. I know John Singleton. I know Aaron McGruder. I know these motherfuckers. I never ask them for a job, I mean, sometimes I joke around and be like, “Yo John, give me a job,” but I don’t actually expect them to.
Aaron McGruder, I never ask him for shit, but I wouldn’t mind; it wouldn’t hurt to have an opportunity in that situation because it would only help open me up to more opportunities; I could take came of my family better. I’m hungry. I’ve even thought about stand up. I mean, I do things that are funny as fuck. But I’m a porn star and people see me as a porn star. It’s funny because people love you and hate you. So they may or may not get in the way of your success.
DX: So we’re going to catch you at the Laugh Factory soon?
MM: Trust me, I’m close. ‘Cause motherfuckers are trying to make a nigga starve. I think comedy comes out of desperation. The things that we do [to survive] are funny.
DX: So what are you trying to say about your financial situation? Are you broke?
MM: I’m a yes-guy. That doesn’t always make you rich. I show up for people who are like, “I don’t have any money,” and I still perform at 100%.
DX: Hey, haven’t women like Superhead let you know that you can’t "fuck for free"?
MM: I know, I know. I know that God is good all the time. I just think that if I work hard and stay true I will get all those [material] things and more. So I’m not even trippin'. I have been given enough to provide. I got a company called Daddy Inc.; I feel like the father, the head of the household. But don’t trip. I came into this industry at the right time, before my time. So I think [the money] will come.
DX: So how much do you get paid per scene?
MM: I’m up to about $800-$1,000 per scene and then I own some movies and I own some scenes. I usually shoot about two to three times a week. That’s all I need, really. But that’s all business. You really have to negotiate. You have to work out points and percentages. I probably could have put out a bunch of urban films that don’t represent who the fuck I am, but I don’t think that way. I feel like I’ve been in this industry for a while but I don’t know what I am going to be doing next and I’m open to that. Trying to do something different. Trying to do something different sexually. I am challenged by it. I feel like why rush through it? I think ultimately, successfully I will be just as strong financially as any other cat that has been in this industry a long time.
DX: What’s your favorite kind of scene?
MM: I like me and a new girl. I like one-on-one. I like a new girl.
DX: What do you have to do to prepare for a scene? Is there ever a time when, you know, when even a few Viagra’s won’t do shit. Just kidding…
MM: I think about sex, and I just stay thinking about sex and I just perform.
DX: I interviewed you about two years back and you said that you had given Chlamydia and gonorrhea to your wife. She wasn’t too happy. So tell me you’ve made your woman proud and have entered ’08 a clean man?
MM: I’m going on like three years and I haven’t caught anything, which is pretty good being in the industry that I am. Most people who come into the industry come in effected by Chlamydia and gonorrhea. Why? Because they don’t get tested. Now they come into an industry where it is mandatory to get tested every month and guess what? They’re positive. These are people who are just fuckin' after the club and in the morning. Come on, there is a lot of dishonesty in sex.
DX: How is your marriage going?
MM: It’s fine. She’s different. She’s a woman who loves me and that the emotional aspect [of our relationship]. A lot of these girls in the industry, they don’t love me; they don’t give a fuck about me. They just want to get paid—they want to fuck and get paid. A lot of them know that I am married and I have kids and I am just doing my job, but then you have others who are definitely like, “oh, that was nice” [and insinuate that they want something more than sex]. But I have to think about my life. [My wife] has always been there. She has always been around and she knows more about me than the average mother fucker. She’s like anyone who has been in a relationship with someone for a really long amount of time. She can either love me or hate me. Right now [laughter] I think she loves me. But you know, I can piss her off.
DX: Like how?
MM: Like by watching porn.
DX: At home too? Damn!
MM: I mean, I’m a dude [laughter] what can I say. I mean, I can piss her off by leaving my socks on the damn floor; it doesn’t take much.
DX: What do you think you do best performance wise?
MM: I think I have patience. Although I think sometimes I am in a hurry, I like to slow it down. I will work to find that spot. I will work to make it sexy. I will work to make it appealing. I will work for the fans, the consumer or whoever is watching that scene, that video. I don’t say, “Why isn’t this bitch keeping my dick hard?” Some guys talk like that. I don’t talk like that; I stay in it to win it.
DX: Did you ever feel like there was a connection during sex with a woman that might qualify as cheating on you wife?
MM: There are a lot of women that I like, but what we do for business is not structured to sustain it. The new women in porn are young… some of them have families and are educated. But their sexual curiosity is so strong that they end up in the porno industry. And then you get to fuck ‘em, knowing that this woman would make the perfect wife; someone’s perfect girlfriend; someone’s perfect mother. But this sexual side of her is so strong that she has to express it and experience it. Women are just as bad as men.
DX: Oddly enough, I found your contact information on the site for the Free Speech Coalition, an organization that defends the adult film industry from censorship. It was funny to see you muddled with all those middle-aged white folk on the board. So what is your involvement in the organization? Don’t say you’re the token.
MM: They came at me before I was ready [to commit to the organization]. They fight for a lot of our tights. They are paid by a lot of companies to keep the government off the backs of porn producers, basically. The Free Speech Coalition was designed to protect the interests of the adult industry, either producer or performer and [the industry’s] ability to function as a business. I can be informed of change if I associate myself with that. And with that I learn more about what it takes to run a business in the adult film industry.
DX: So what exactly do you contribute to the workings of the organization?
MM: Well, I obviously contribute color. I think I also contribute youth and experience because I’m not just any performer; I’m a major performer.
DX: Do you have any plans to exit the industry or are you going to be pumpin’ until you have a heart attack?
MM: I want to be as present as possible in the industry. I came in the industry young because I was a fan, and I’m still a fan. Sex gives us something to laugh about and something to smile about. It’s gratification whenever you need it. I’m here because I can express myself through sex.
DX: Your government name, Jesse Spencer, could have worked as a porn alias, don’t you think? I mean, the closest person it makes me think of Elizabeth Berkley’s character on Saved by the Bell, Jessie Spano, but still, it’s a hot name. Where did Mr. Marcus come from?
MM: There is a Jesse Spencer the actor, so he was lucky. Jack Nicholson said it best. He said he likes to act because when he is acting he is not responsible for his actions. So you can do whatever the fuck you want and not be held accountable. I think that as being Mr. Marcus, at first it gave me a sort of freedom. I get to be whoever the fuck I want to be. The LA cops, the sheriffs pulled me over too many times and “Jesse Spencer” used to get my ass in a lot of trouble. So I came up with an alias and the alias was Marcus. When I came into the adult industry, I continued to use that alias.
DX: So what do you think is the relationship between Hip Hop and the adult film industry?
MM: I think Hip Hop builds off fuckin’. I heard of guys watching pornos while they are in the studio, recording. I’ve been in the studio with cats recording music while having pornos playing. I don’t think they have to think when they are watching movies; I don’t think they have to listen to the sounds. I mean, think about when you are dancing on the dance floor, [a woman] will determine if a guy can fuck or not based on [if he can dance]. I hear JD and Ludacris take their music to the strip clubs just to see if the girls are feeling it. They gotta stop saying sex sells, because sex and music sells, period. We call is "SMS: Sex, music, sells."
DX: So since you’re all up in the studio, do you ever think about dropping your own album? I’m sure it’d have some interesting interludes.
MM: I’ve thought about it. I don't know. I got flow. I got musically inclined balls.
DX: So freestyle for me
MM: *Freestyles*
DX: Don’t quit your day job.
DX: Do you have a little posse in the adult film world?
MM: Lexington Steele, Justin Slayer, Brian Pumper, John E. Depth, Fetish, Aurora Jolie, Pinky—she’s a freak; I like her. I like women who you would love to fuck in the mainstream world, but you can’t. But they're in porno because they love to fuck, they like being fucked and they like being objectified. A lot of times, to get a nut, you have to objectify some shit. You gotta want that car so bad that you will bust a nut to get that motherfucker. That’s who we are as a people.
DX: Who do you roll with?
MM: I hung with 2Pac for a little bit, I hung out with Aaron McGruder. I like to hang out with Dr. Dre; I’ve hung out with everyone for a quick second. Ray J…
DX: Do you think Ray J should have his own porn series?
MM: Yep, I sure do. I like Ray J. I think he represents for a lot of guys who are just like him. I’m an older cat, no doubt. Ray J is just a younger cat and he rolls with younger cats that look up to him. In a way, I’m just like him. How many R&B niggas you know who have a porno tape out? Keith Sweat? Omarion? Nah. He made a porno tape as a last ditch effort. It didn’t come out because he needed to make any money. He got money. The bitch [Kim Kardashian] actually [benefited more from the release of the tape]. She got a TV series, her sisters [are famous now]. That didn’t come from them being who they are, that came from that porno tape.
DX: What are the hurdles or the black man in the industry?
MM: There are a lot of white men in the position of money and power. You can’t be exhausted [as a black man] we have to get up and put in work.
From www.hiphopdx.com
This is so much fun!!! Came across this handy little webage tonight called the Parody Motivator Generator: http://diy.despair.com/motivator.php
Make your own and post 'em up!
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Monday, February 04, 2008
The Rest Of The Story... Britney Spears “On The Edge” After Discovering Sex Tapes Were Stolen From Her Home
Los Angeles - Fallen pop princess Britney Spears is said to be “on the edge” after discovering sex tapes were stolen from her Beverly Hills home over the weekend.
The ‘Toxic’ singer - who is currently on a 14 day psychiatric hold at Los Angeles’ UCLA Medical Center - is reportedy terrified that “valuable items” taken from her sprawling mansion on Friday night included X-rated footage of her taking drugs and having sex.
A source close to the singer said: “This is the last thing Britney needs. She’s on the edge because all her secrets could now be revealed. Some of the things that may have been taken are dynamite.”
This isn’t the first time the troubled singer, 26, has allegedly been involved in a sex tape.
Footage apparently showing the singer performing oral sex on ex-husband Kevin Federline was leaked on the internet last year, but was eventually classed as fake.
More recently, there were reports of the pop wreck starring in another sex tape where she sported a shaven head and performed a sex act on two women and a man while consuming cocaine and marijuana. However, the footage was never made public.
Los Angeles Police Department officer Alex Martinez confirmed police had responded to a call originating from Britney’s house, but said he had no idea what had happened, adding: “The report is being processed through our system. We do not have access to it.”
Meanwhile, the singer’s hospitalization has been extended to an additional 14-day hold, a source close to the singer has confirmed.
Only Britney’s psychiatrist, Dr. Deborah Nadel, would have had the authority to request the involuntary stay. However, according to US reports, it is possible the singer could be out earlier if she legally demands to be released or her doctor deems her well enough for outpatient treatment.
At Los Angeles’ UCLA Medcal Center, Britney is allowed to wear her own clothes and keep her own personal possessions, including toiletries. She may also see visitors every day and make and receive phone calls – but not on her personal cell phone. There are pay phones on the floor.
--showbizspy.com
The ‘Toxic’ singer - who is currently on a 14 day psychiatric hold at Los Angeles’ UCLA Medical Center - is reportedy terrified that “valuable items” taken from her sprawling mansion on Friday night included X-rated footage of her taking drugs and having sex.
A source close to the singer said: “This is the last thing Britney needs. She’s on the edge because all her secrets could now be revealed. Some of the things that may have been taken are dynamite.”
This isn’t the first time the troubled singer, 26, has allegedly been involved in a sex tape.
Footage apparently showing the singer performing oral sex on ex-husband Kevin Federline was leaked on the internet last year, but was eventually classed as fake.
More recently, there were reports of the pop wreck starring in another sex tape where she sported a shaven head and performed a sex act on two women and a man while consuming cocaine and marijuana. However, the footage was never made public.
Los Angeles Police Department officer Alex Martinez confirmed police had responded to a call originating from Britney’s house, but said he had no idea what had happened, adding: “The report is being processed through our system. We do not have access to it.”
Meanwhile, the singer’s hospitalization has been extended to an additional 14-day hold, a source close to the singer has confirmed.
Only Britney’s psychiatrist, Dr. Deborah Nadel, would have had the authority to request the involuntary stay. However, according to US reports, it is possible the singer could be out earlier if she legally demands to be released or her doctor deems her well enough for outpatient treatment.
At Los Angeles’ UCLA Medcal Center, Britney is allowed to wear her own clothes and keep her own personal possessions, including toiletries. She may also see visitors every day and make and receive phone calls – but not on her personal cell phone. There are pay phones on the floor.
--showbizspy.com
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Monday, December 17, 2007
Baywatch Beauty Files For Divorce... Or Not!
It seems like only two months ago that Pamela Anderson was aglow with happiness over her quickie Las Vegas wedding to Rick Salomon. Actually, it was!
But the 40-year-old ex-"Baywatch" beauty has filed for divorce from her 38-year-old husband after just two months of marriage.
Anderson cited irreconcilable differences in papers filed Friday in Los Angeles County Superior Court. The documents were first obtained by the celebrity Web site CelebTV.com.
Anderson and Salomon wed Oct. 6 during a break between the 7 p.m. and 10 p.m. shows of "Hans Klok's The Beauty of Magic" at Planet Hollywood resort, where Anderson was starring as a magician's assistant. The couple separated less than 10 weeks later, on Dec. 13.
Salomon is best known for making a sex videotape with Paris Hilton, his girlfriend at the time, and was previously married to actress Shannen Doherty. Anderson was previously married to singer Kid Rock and Motley Crue drummer Tommy Lee.
Now it turns out that Pamela Anderson and Rick Salomon have reconciled and they are not getting divorced, TMZ.com reported Monday.
A source close to the couple told TMZ they had a huge fight, but have now made up.
On her Web site Monday, Pam hinted that she and Rick were "working things out."
But on Friday, the former "Baywatch" babe filed a claim for dissolution of her marriage to Salomon, the co-star of the Paris Hilton sex tape, only two months after they wed, according to court documents first obtained by CelebTV.com. She cited irreconcilable differences as the cause.
Anderson and Salomon recently shot down rumors they would star in their own TV reality show.
On Thursday, the actress wrote on her blog: "I WAS considering...Only to promote and have people see what it's like to create a show and be on stage starring in a big Vegas production. (probably not happening anymore) not my family life. (Never my kids) I have to make a lot of big decisions. The choices I have to make now are about quality of life. And meaning. Not about money or fame for no good reason. I know I've made a lot of mistakes. But no regrets -- Just living such a huge dream....I'm blessed. So many options. I can't complain. I can be confused."
Anderson and Salomon wed Oct. 6 during a break between the 7 p.m. and 10 p.m. shows of "Hans Klok's The Beauty of Magic" at Planet Hollywood resort, where Anderson was starring as a magician's assistant.
Anderson, 40, has been previously married to singer Kid Rock and Motley Crue drummer Tommy Lee.
Salomon, 38, is best-known for making a sex videotape with his then-girlfriend Paris Hilton and was previously married to actress Shannen Doherty.
But the 40-year-old ex-"Baywatch" beauty has filed for divorce from her 38-year-old husband after just two months of marriage.
Anderson cited irreconcilable differences in papers filed Friday in Los Angeles County Superior Court. The documents were first obtained by the celebrity Web site CelebTV.com.
Anderson and Salomon wed Oct. 6 during a break between the 7 p.m. and 10 p.m. shows of "Hans Klok's The Beauty of Magic" at Planet Hollywood resort, where Anderson was starring as a magician's assistant. The couple separated less than 10 weeks later, on Dec. 13.
Salomon is best known for making a sex videotape with Paris Hilton, his girlfriend at the time, and was previously married to actress Shannen Doherty. Anderson was previously married to singer Kid Rock and Motley Crue drummer Tommy Lee.
Now it turns out that Pamela Anderson and Rick Salomon have reconciled and they are not getting divorced, TMZ.com reported Monday.
A source close to the couple told TMZ they had a huge fight, but have now made up.
On her Web site Monday, Pam hinted that she and Rick were "working things out."
But on Friday, the former "Baywatch" babe filed a claim for dissolution of her marriage to Salomon, the co-star of the Paris Hilton sex tape, only two months after they wed, according to court documents first obtained by CelebTV.com. She cited irreconcilable differences as the cause.
Anderson and Salomon recently shot down rumors they would star in their own TV reality show.
On Thursday, the actress wrote on her blog: "I WAS considering...Only to promote and have people see what it's like to create a show and be on stage starring in a big Vegas production. (probably not happening anymore) not my family life. (Never my kids) I have to make a lot of big decisions. The choices I have to make now are about quality of life. And meaning. Not about money or fame for no good reason. I know I've made a lot of mistakes. But no regrets -- Just living such a huge dream....I'm blessed. So many options. I can't complain. I can be confused."
Anderson and Salomon wed Oct. 6 during a break between the 7 p.m. and 10 p.m. shows of "Hans Klok's The Beauty of Magic" at Planet Hollywood resort, where Anderson was starring as a magician's assistant.
Anderson, 40, has been previously married to singer Kid Rock and Motley Crue drummer Tommy Lee.
Salomon, 38, is best-known for making a sex videotape with his then-girlfriend Paris Hilton and was previously married to actress Shannen Doherty.
Monday, December 10, 2007
Give The Gift They REALLY Want!
This Holiday, get it right! Give them what they want MOST! A gift of porn says "I Love You" in a way like no other, so click here and shop online now for the gift they will really love! You will be glad you did!
Months in Jail for Role in Dogfighting Conspiracy
RICHMOND, Va. — Michael Vick was sentenced to 23 months in prison Monday for his role in a dogfighting conspiracy that involved gambling and killing pit bulls that did not perform up to expectations.
U.S. District Judge Henry E. Hudson could have sentenced the suspended Atlanta Falcons quarterback to up to five years. Vick pleaded guilty in August, admitting that he bankrolled the "Bad Newz Kennels" dogfighting operation and that he helped kill six to eight dogs.
Vick was dressed in black-and-white striped prison suit and apologized to the court and his family.
Vick pleaded guilty in August. In a plea agreement, he admitted bankrolling the "Bad Newz Kennels" dogfighting operation on his 15-acre property in rural southeastern Virginia and helping kill six to eight pit bulls that did not perform well in test fights.
He also admitted providing money for bets on the fights but said he never shared in any winnings.
U.S. District Judge Henry E. Hudson could have sentenced the suspended Atlanta Falcons quarterback to up to five years. Vick pleaded guilty in August, admitting that he bankrolled the "Bad Newz Kennels" dogfighting operation and that he helped kill six to eight dogs.
Vick was dressed in black-and-white striped prison suit and apologized to the court and his family.
Vick pleaded guilty in August. In a plea agreement, he admitted bankrolling the "Bad Newz Kennels" dogfighting operation on his 15-acre property in rural southeastern Virginia and helping kill six to eight pit bulls that did not perform well in test fights.
He also admitted providing money for bets on the fights but said he never shared in any winnings.
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Kim Kardashian Sure Knows How To Make A Whole Lot Out Of Nothing.
This article is from AOL, on the Black Voices Blog. How hard do you think Ray to tha J slammed this girl in the Vivid best selling classic? LOL!
The alleged Hollywood socialite is gracing the cover of Playboy magazine's December issue, which hit newsstands this week.
On the outside of the magazine, the Armenian beauty and tabloid mainstay is adorned in a red, stringy satin get-up accentuated by red high heels – perfect tie-in for the holiday season. Inside, she strikes a myriad of poses, which exposes her full and abundant endowments.
"It is not as revealing as some people might want," she said in a recent interview. "I keep it classy ... It was something that I was really nervous about doing at first. "Kardashian is the daughter of late OJ Simpson attorney Robert Kardashian, and the ex-wife of music producer Damon Thomas of The Underdogs. Since gaining popularity as a "best-friend" of over-exposed hotel heiress Paris Hilton, the voluptuous pin-up girl, professionally known as a fashion stylist for R&B stars, has been romantically linked to a slew of sought after black celebrity bachelors, including football star Reggie Bush and actor Nick Cannon.
The commercial release of 'Kim K Superstar' -- her raunchy sex tape with hip-hop soul crooner Ray-J -- earlier this year, propelled her into the stratosphere of quasi-celebrity scandal.
She sued adult video giant Vivid Entertainment and halted the sale of the best-selling DVD.
On Oct. 14, E! Entertainment Television debuted 'Keepin Up with the Kardashians,' a far-fetched reality series following on the day-to-day dilemmas of the sexpot's family dynamic. Surprisingly, the story-line – which revolves around her over-the-top "momager" Kris Jenner and mild-mannered, conservative stepdad Bruce Jenner trying to keep up with their young son Robert and five outrageous daughters – ranked as the number one show among women (ages 18 to 34) in its Sunday night premiere timeslot.
After four weeks on the air, the series has reached more than 13 million total viewers, a network rep confirmed.
Today, E! announced the second season pick-up for the hit half-hour reality series, which is produced by 'American Idol' host Ryan Seacrest. "Viewers have clearly fallen for the Kardashians," network Executive Vice President Lisa Berger said in a statement. "This family's one-of-a-kind dynamics and hilarious antics has made the series a fantastic addition to our prime time line-up."
The alleged Hollywood socialite is gracing the cover of Playboy magazine's December issue, which hit newsstands this week.
On the outside of the magazine, the Armenian beauty and tabloid mainstay is adorned in a red, stringy satin get-up accentuated by red high heels – perfect tie-in for the holiday season. Inside, she strikes a myriad of poses, which exposes her full and abundant endowments.
"It is not as revealing as some people might want," she said in a recent interview. "I keep it classy ... It was something that I was really nervous about doing at first. "Kardashian is the daughter of late OJ Simpson attorney Robert Kardashian, and the ex-wife of music producer Damon Thomas of The Underdogs. Since gaining popularity as a "best-friend" of over-exposed hotel heiress Paris Hilton, the voluptuous pin-up girl, professionally known as a fashion stylist for R&B stars, has been romantically linked to a slew of sought after black celebrity bachelors, including football star Reggie Bush and actor Nick Cannon.
The commercial release of 'Kim K Superstar' -- her raunchy sex tape with hip-hop soul crooner Ray-J -- earlier this year, propelled her into the stratosphere of quasi-celebrity scandal.
She sued adult video giant Vivid Entertainment and halted the sale of the best-selling DVD.
On Oct. 14, E! Entertainment Television debuted 'Keepin Up with the Kardashians,' a far-fetched reality series following on the day-to-day dilemmas of the sexpot's family dynamic. Surprisingly, the story-line – which revolves around her over-the-top "momager" Kris Jenner and mild-mannered, conservative stepdad Bruce Jenner trying to keep up with their young son Robert and five outrageous daughters – ranked as the number one show among women (ages 18 to 34) in its Sunday night premiere timeslot.
After four weeks on the air, the series has reached more than 13 million total viewers, a network rep confirmed.
Today, E! announced the second season pick-up for the hit half-hour reality series, which is produced by 'American Idol' host Ryan Seacrest. "Viewers have clearly fallen for the Kardashians," network Executive Vice President Lisa Berger said in a statement. "This family's one-of-a-kind dynamics and hilarious antics has made the series a fantastic addition to our prime time line-up."
Friday, November 09, 2007
Lexington Steele Talks About the Mainstreaming of Adult
Lexington Steele, owner of Mercenary Pictures and three-time AVN Male Performer of the Year, weighed in on his opinions of the adult industry on TV One's late night talk show, Baisden After Dark.
Hosted by national radio personality Michael Baisden, Steele's appearance on Baisden After Dark centered on the growing acceptance of the adult industry in popular culture. Fellow performer Nikki Fairchild and Senior Pastor of the first African Village Church Ray Hagins also were on hand during the show.
"The show's approach to talking about the adult industry was refreshing,"
Steele, who also appeared on Baisden's nationally syndicated radio show,
said.
"Michael didn't ambush us with anti-porn guests or paint the industry
as unsavory or being full of social misfits - in fact, the pastor he had on
stage with us, Ray Hagins, was very supportive of the role X-rated videos
could play in relationships. Michael concentrated on why it was becoming a
more acceptable part of society and did not judge the industry or the people who are part of it."
The appearance on Baisden After Dark follows a string of mainstream
appearances for Steele, including a role in two episodes of Showtime's Weeds and the use of Topco's Lexcalibur, a dildo molded after Steele, in HBO's Entourage, as well as the completion of his own pilots for a reality and talk show. Steele will also appear in an upcoming episode of FX's Nip/Tuck.
Hosted by national radio personality Michael Baisden, Steele's appearance on Baisden After Dark centered on the growing acceptance of the adult industry in popular culture. Fellow performer Nikki Fairchild and Senior Pastor of the first African Village Church Ray Hagins also were on hand during the show.
"The show's approach to talking about the adult industry was refreshing,"
Steele, who also appeared on Baisden's nationally syndicated radio show,
said.
"Michael didn't ambush us with anti-porn guests or paint the industry
as unsavory or being full of social misfits - in fact, the pastor he had on
stage with us, Ray Hagins, was very supportive of the role X-rated videos
could play in relationships. Michael concentrated on why it was becoming a
more acceptable part of society and did not judge the industry or the people who are part of it."
The appearance on Baisden After Dark follows a string of mainstream
appearances for Steele, including a role in two episodes of Showtime's Weeds and the use of Topco's Lexcalibur, a dildo molded after Steele, in HBO's Entourage, as well as the completion of his own pilots for a reality and talk show. Steele will also appear in an upcoming episode of FX's Nip/Tuck.
NY Post: "Defiant Porn Poobah to Sell Amy Fisher Vid"; Copyright Infringement Case Coming?
Porn Valley - A Los Angeles porn peddler yesterday said he's going forward with plans to sell an Amy Fisher sex tape, despite her threats to take him to court.
David Joseph, CEO of Red Light District, said he's on firm legal footing and will sell "Amy Fisher Caught on Tape" on Nov. 14, for $40 a pop.
Fisher's husband, Lou Bellera, sold footage of the couple's sex romps to Red Light this summer when he and the Long Island Lolita were briefly estranged.
"I made this deal with Lou Bellera, and I'm very confident we have everything legally done," Joseph told The Post.
But Fisher's lawyer, William DalesSandro, said that his client never signed off on Bellera hawking the tape and that she has an airtight case of copyright infringement.
Joseph credited Bellera, a professional videographer, with producing good footage.
"I've watched it several times. The lighting is good, the sex is good, Amy looks good," Joseph said.
David Joseph, CEO of Red Light District, said he's on firm legal footing and will sell "Amy Fisher Caught on Tape" on Nov. 14, for $40 a pop.
Fisher's husband, Lou Bellera, sold footage of the couple's sex romps to Red Light this summer when he and the Long Island Lolita were briefly estranged.
"I made this deal with Lou Bellera, and I'm very confident we have everything legally done," Joseph told The Post.
But Fisher's lawyer, William DalesSandro, said that his client never signed off on Bellera hawking the tape and that she has an airtight case of copyright infringement.
Joseph credited Bellera, a professional videographer, with producing good footage.
"I've watched it several times. The lighting is good, the sex is good, Amy looks good," Joseph said.
Thursday, November 01, 2007
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K-Fed's New G-Friend On B-Spears
The quotes are from Nicole Narain, K-Fed's new girlfriend. She tells us what Kevin Federline says about different aspects of the marriage and divorce. Read: The Ex Is A Mess...
On Britney’s mental state:
"Britney's behaviour has already put our kids at risk and I can't let things get any worse. She's lost all grasp on reality and is dragging the children through hell. Her mood swings are now so wild that I live in fear of getting a call telling me that she has killed herself. I can't allow her to have custody because I seriously believe she could harm our sons. I've shared her life and I know she's capable of anything with pills and a few drinks inside her."
On Britney’s drinking:
"I'd see her walking around the house guzzling vodka and Coke and looking very tipsy. Then a few moments later, I saw her pick up Jayden and start breast-feeding him. That sent me up the wall. I yelled at her, ‘If you really wanna drink then make sure the baby gets bottled milk, not yours.' I was terrified she was poisoning my son. But she wouldn't listen. She never would. She treated me like one of her employees who bowed to her every whim. "She screamed back, ‘You can't talk to me that way!' But I had to stand up for my children as well as myself.
On what led to the divorce:
"Two weeks later she filed for divorce. I only found out when I heard it as a news item on the radio. I felt she was just trying to teach me a lesson for telling her off about the breast-feeding incident. But when I called she kicked off another row and screamed, ‘You're nothing without me'. I never wanted a divorce but now I knew there was no option."
On Britney’s parenting:
“During the last few months I'd started picking her up on her parenting skills. She'd leave the kids near the pool unsupervised or drive around without belting them in. She always insisted what she was doing was right. There was no getting through to her.”
On Britney's bi-curious pass at Nicole:
“I was doing my make-up and I could feel someone staring at me. It was Britney, in a green dress and looking a bit spaced-out. She looked at me in a provocative way... I thought she was hoping to get me closer to her. When I told Kevin he nodded and said, ‘Knowing her, she probably was'.”
Nicole says:
"Kevin is battling for his kids as he genuinely fears they are at risk. He never shouts and screams about Britney in front of me. He does speak openly about his concerns for his children though." According to Nicole, Kevin is especially worried about the damage Britney's lifestyle is doing to their sons.
She reveals: "I was with Kevin on Monday morning when his kids turned up after spending time with Britney. He was overjoyed to see them, but deeply concerned about what they'd been through.
"On Monday he was treating Jayden for pink eye (conjunctivitis), and was worried Britney was to blame. He told me if they had joint custody he'd need two days just to get the children settled down and calm again after their stint away with Britney. He says she keeps them up and has no fixed routine which makes them over-stressed, over-tired and desperate for attention.
"He has tried to get Britney to change her ways, but gets nowhere. He gets so upset when the kids are with her that he won't switch on the TV as he knows there will be news footage of her with them in LA.
"He can't bear to see them looking stressed, traumatized and disorientated as she carts them off on another jaunt around town, seemingly for no reason. That's one of the key reasons why he went for custody in court."
The custody battle began in Los Angeles in September, the month Kevin met Nicole. He landed the first blow when his lawyers presented the LA Superior Court with a dossier about Britney's antics, including alleged lesbian flings, drug abuse, drinking and bad parenting.
We can reveal Kevin included the lesbian allegations after Nicole told him about her flirty encounter with Britney last December. Nicole, who met Kevin at a fashion party at Hollywood club Vice, said: "I told him Britney had once tried to kiss me. We met in the toilets of Beverly Hills restaurant Mr Chows.
"I was doing my make-up and I could feel someone staring at me. It was Britney, in a green dress and looking a bit spaced-out. She looked at me in a provocative way. I found it unnerving, but I smiled to be friendly.
"She then cosied alongside me by the mirror and asked to borrow my lip-gloss. I agreed, put some on my finger and let her rub it on. She rolled her eyes and giggled before suggestively rubbing it over her lips. It became clear she was flirting.
"She then asked for some more and kind of leaned into me and glared intensely. I thought she was hoping to get me closer to her. When I told Kevin he nodded and said, ‘Knowing her, she probably was'. I was shocked that she'd try to pick up someone in a toilet. I presume she's bisexual. I threw away the lip-gloss after that, thinking how tacky her behaviour was." Nicole revealed doting dad Kevin has created a real family home for his children.
She said: "Kevin has made a point of surrounding himself with genuine and pleasant people. Unlike Britney's place, his seven-bedroom mansion is a real home for him and his children.
"He has a housekeeper, cleaner and string of staff in all the time. The nanny comes in when needed and it makes for a real family environment. When you walk in you go into a hallway and there are pictures of him with his kids everywhere. There are the kids' toys stacked up including Sean's plastic truck which he rides around in the house. Jayden has his little cuddly toys in boxes as well. In the backyard the kids have a huge jungle gym activity kit, which they play with."
Nicole revealed Kevin has bedrooms not only for Sean and Jayden but also for his kids by former partner Shar Jackson—Kori, five, and three-year-old Kaleb.
She said: "Each of the lads has a bed in the shape of a Ferrari. The walls are painted with animals and shapes and are full up with toys. Sean's room has a big toy train set around the outside. Jayden still has trouble sleeping, so Kevin has put an extra Ferrari bed in his own bedroom."
Nicole slammed claims that Kevin is a wild-partying gold-digger.
The former Playboy Playmate said: "He may have been a party animal in the past, but I haven't seen him talk about or take drugs. He does like a bourbon and Coke, but he'll have a couple of those and call it a night. He has his home and that's where he spends most of his time now."
This weekend, Britney and Kevin were each spending one day with their children.
On Friday, after a three-hour hearing attended by the couple, Superior Court Commissioner Scott Gordon postponed a decision on Britney's application to win back custody of the boys. At one point a clearly disturbed Britney ran out of the court yelling: "Eat it, lick it, snort it, f*** it."
Nicole said: "I feel sorry for Britney. She has lost the love of a very caring, passionate and intelligent man. At the moment his priority is fighting for his children."
On Britney’s mental state:
"Britney's behaviour has already put our kids at risk and I can't let things get any worse. She's lost all grasp on reality and is dragging the children through hell. Her mood swings are now so wild that I live in fear of getting a call telling me that she has killed herself. I can't allow her to have custody because I seriously believe she could harm our sons. I've shared her life and I know she's capable of anything with pills and a few drinks inside her."
On Britney’s drinking:
"I'd see her walking around the house guzzling vodka and Coke and looking very tipsy. Then a few moments later, I saw her pick up Jayden and start breast-feeding him. That sent me up the wall. I yelled at her, ‘If you really wanna drink then make sure the baby gets bottled milk, not yours.' I was terrified she was poisoning my son. But she wouldn't listen. She never would. She treated me like one of her employees who bowed to her every whim. "She screamed back, ‘You can't talk to me that way!' But I had to stand up for my children as well as myself.
On what led to the divorce:
"Two weeks later she filed for divorce. I only found out when I heard it as a news item on the radio. I felt she was just trying to teach me a lesson for telling her off about the breast-feeding incident. But when I called she kicked off another row and screamed, ‘You're nothing without me'. I never wanted a divorce but now I knew there was no option."
On Britney’s parenting:
“During the last few months I'd started picking her up on her parenting skills. She'd leave the kids near the pool unsupervised or drive around without belting them in. She always insisted what she was doing was right. There was no getting through to her.”
On Britney's bi-curious pass at Nicole:
“I was doing my make-up and I could feel someone staring at me. It was Britney, in a green dress and looking a bit spaced-out. She looked at me in a provocative way... I thought she was hoping to get me closer to her. When I told Kevin he nodded and said, ‘Knowing her, she probably was'.”
Nicole says:
"Kevin is battling for his kids as he genuinely fears they are at risk. He never shouts and screams about Britney in front of me. He does speak openly about his concerns for his children though." According to Nicole, Kevin is especially worried about the damage Britney's lifestyle is doing to their sons.
She reveals: "I was with Kevin on Monday morning when his kids turned up after spending time with Britney. He was overjoyed to see them, but deeply concerned about what they'd been through.
"On Monday he was treating Jayden for pink eye (conjunctivitis), and was worried Britney was to blame. He told me if they had joint custody he'd need two days just to get the children settled down and calm again after their stint away with Britney. He says she keeps them up and has no fixed routine which makes them over-stressed, over-tired and desperate for attention.
"He has tried to get Britney to change her ways, but gets nowhere. He gets so upset when the kids are with her that he won't switch on the TV as he knows there will be news footage of her with them in LA.
"He can't bear to see them looking stressed, traumatized and disorientated as she carts them off on another jaunt around town, seemingly for no reason. That's one of the key reasons why he went for custody in court."
The custody battle began in Los Angeles in September, the month Kevin met Nicole. He landed the first blow when his lawyers presented the LA Superior Court with a dossier about Britney's antics, including alleged lesbian flings, drug abuse, drinking and bad parenting.
We can reveal Kevin included the lesbian allegations after Nicole told him about her flirty encounter with Britney last December. Nicole, who met Kevin at a fashion party at Hollywood club Vice, said: "I told him Britney had once tried to kiss me. We met in the toilets of Beverly Hills restaurant Mr Chows.
"I was doing my make-up and I could feel someone staring at me. It was Britney, in a green dress and looking a bit spaced-out. She looked at me in a provocative way. I found it unnerving, but I smiled to be friendly.
"She then cosied alongside me by the mirror and asked to borrow my lip-gloss. I agreed, put some on my finger and let her rub it on. She rolled her eyes and giggled before suggestively rubbing it over her lips. It became clear she was flirting.
"She then asked for some more and kind of leaned into me and glared intensely. I thought she was hoping to get me closer to her. When I told Kevin he nodded and said, ‘Knowing her, she probably was'. I was shocked that she'd try to pick up someone in a toilet. I presume she's bisexual. I threw away the lip-gloss after that, thinking how tacky her behaviour was." Nicole revealed doting dad Kevin has created a real family home for his children.
She said: "Kevin has made a point of surrounding himself with genuine and pleasant people. Unlike Britney's place, his seven-bedroom mansion is a real home for him and his children.
"He has a housekeeper, cleaner and string of staff in all the time. The nanny comes in when needed and it makes for a real family environment. When you walk in you go into a hallway and there are pictures of him with his kids everywhere. There are the kids' toys stacked up including Sean's plastic truck which he rides around in the house. Jayden has his little cuddly toys in boxes as well. In the backyard the kids have a huge jungle gym activity kit, which they play with."
Nicole revealed Kevin has bedrooms not only for Sean and Jayden but also for his kids by former partner Shar Jackson—Kori, five, and three-year-old Kaleb.
She said: "Each of the lads has a bed in the shape of a Ferrari. The walls are painted with animals and shapes and are full up with toys. Sean's room has a big toy train set around the outside. Jayden still has trouble sleeping, so Kevin has put an extra Ferrari bed in his own bedroom."
Nicole slammed claims that Kevin is a wild-partying gold-digger.
The former Playboy Playmate said: "He may have been a party animal in the past, but I haven't seen him talk about or take drugs. He does like a bourbon and Coke, but he'll have a couple of those and call it a night. He has his home and that's where he spends most of his time now."
This weekend, Britney and Kevin were each spending one day with their children.
On Friday, after a three-hour hearing attended by the couple, Superior Court Commissioner Scott Gordon postponed a decision on Britney's application to win back custody of the boys. At one point a clearly disturbed Britney ran out of the court yelling: "Eat it, lick it, snort it, f*** it."
Nicole said: "I feel sorry for Britney. She has lost the love of a very caring, passionate and intelligent man. At the moment his priority is fighting for his children."
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
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